Your body just did something extraordinary. It grew a human being, and now—whether through vaginal delivery or cesarean section—it has birthed that human into the world. This deserves recognition, patience, and respect.
I understand the desire to "get your body back." I also understand how problematic that phrase is. You haven't lost your body—it has transformed. The goal now isn't to reverse what happened, but to rebuild strength, function, and confidence in this new chapter.
As someone who specializes in prenatal and postnatal fitness, I want to give you a realistic picture of what postpartum recovery looks like and when you can safely return to different types of exercise.
The First Six Weeks: Rest and Recover
I know you might not want to hear this, but the first six weeks postpartum should prioritize rest—not exercise. Your body is healing from a significant physical event, whether you had a vaginal birth or a C-section.
During this time:
- Your uterus is contracting back to its pre-pregnancy size
- Hormones are fluctuating dramatically
- Surgical sites or tears are healing
- Your pelvic floor is recovering from pregnancy and birth
- Sleep deprivation is real and affects recovery
What you CAN do during this time:
- Gentle walking as you feel able (start with just 5-10 minutes)
- Diaphragmatic breathing exercises
- Gentle pelvic floor activation (if cleared by your provider)
- Basic posture awareness, especially while feeding
"The hardest thing was giving myself permission to rest. But looking back, those weeks of recovery set me up for much better progress once I was actually ready to train." — Amanda, client
Weeks 6-12: Rebuilding the Foundation
At your 6-week postpartum checkup, your provider will likely "clear" you for exercise. But here's what most people don't tell you: this clearance is for low-impact activity, not for jumping back into your pre-pregnancy routine.
Think of this phase as rebuilding your foundation from the inside out:
Priority 1: Pelvic Floor Rehabilitation
Before doing planks, running, or lifting weights, you need to reconnect with and strengthen your pelvic floor. This isn't just about Kegels—it's about learning to coordinate your deep core system again.
Signs you may need to see a pelvic floor physical therapist:
- Any urinary leakage (even "just a little")
- Heaviness or pressure in your vagina
- Pain during intercourse
- Difficulty activating your core
- Diastasis recti (abdominal separation)
Priority 2: Core Reconnection
Your core has been stretched and stressed for nine months. Traditional ab exercises like crunches and planks may not be appropriate yet. Instead, focus on:
- Diaphragmatic breathing with pelvic floor coordination
- Gentle core activation exercises
- Dead bugs and bird dogs (modified as needed)
- Proper bracing techniques
Months 3-6: Gradual Progression
Assuming your foundation is solid, this is when you can start to progress more significantly. But "progression" doesn't mean "back to normal"—it means thoughtfully building capacity.
Strength Training
You can begin incorporating more traditional strength exercises:
- Bodyweight exercises (squats, lunges, push-ups)
- Light resistance training
- Gradually increasing weights as your body allows
Pay attention to any symptoms like leaking, pressure, or doming in your abdomen—these are signs to scale back and address the underlying issue.
Cardiovascular Exercise
Low-impact cardio can be introduced:
- Walking (increasing duration and pace)
- Swimming (once cleared by your provider)
- Cycling
- Elliptical
High-impact activities like running and jumping should wait until you've built sufficient pelvic floor strength—for most women, this is 4-6 months minimum, often longer.
Six Months and Beyond
For many women, this is when things start to feel more "normal." Your body has had significant time to heal, hormones are stabilizing (especially if you're no longer breastfeeding), and you may have more consistent sleep.
At this stage, you can typically:
- Return to most pre-pregnancy activities
- Begin running (if pelvic floor is ready)
- Incorporate higher-intensity workouts
- Progress to heavier weights
That said, every woman's timeline is different. Some may take longer; some may progress faster. Listen to your body over any arbitrary timeline.
Special Considerations for C-Section Recovery
If you had a cesarean birth, your recovery timeline is typically longer:
- Weeks 1-6: Focus entirely on healing from abdominal surgery
- Weeks 6-12: Very gentle movement only; your incision is still healing internally
- Months 3-6: Gradual return to exercise with extra attention to scar tissue mobility
- 6+ months: Continued progression with awareness of scar sensitivity
Scar massage and mobilization (once cleared by your provider) can significantly help with recovery and return to comfortable movement.
Red Flags: When to Stop and Seek Help
Stop exercising and consult your healthcare provider if you experience:
- Heavy bleeding or bleeding that increases with activity
- Pain (not just discomfort) during or after exercise
- Urinary or fecal incontinence
- Feeling of heaviness or "something falling out"
- Significant abdominal doming or coning
- Dizziness or lightheadedness
A Note on Expectations
Social media is full of "bounce back" stories and six-week transformations. Please remember: those are not the norm, and they're often not the full story.
Your body just performed a miracle. It will never be exactly the same—and that's not a failure. Stretch marks, loose skin, changed proportions—these are evidence of what your body has accomplished.
The goal of postpartum fitness isn't to erase what happened. It's to rebuild a body that's strong, functional, and capable of carrying you through this new chapter of motherhood.
Be patient. Be kind to yourself. And when you're ready, I'm here to help you rebuild—at whatever pace works for your body and your life.
Sources & Further Reading
- ACOG: Exercise After Pregnancy — American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists
- PubMed: Diastasis Recti Research — Studies on abdominal separation
- Mayo Clinic: Postpartum Care
- Pelvic Rehabilitation Medicine: Patient Resources